Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Back to School!!

Today was the first day of school for the Decker bunch. It was a good thing and a bad thing. It was sooo peaceful around the house today, well except right up until my little energizer bunny with the beautiful almond eyes awoke! I was so glad not to hear the I'm bored there's nothing to do bit, but yet they did help with Savannah a lot and kept her entertained. It was so hard for me this year to see my baby girl Haleigh start her first year of Jr. High School. In our area we have a grade School k-6th and a Jr./Sr. High School 7-12th, so no middle school. Haleigh is growing up so fast as is the boys too. She's a 7th grader, Jordan is a senior, and my Tan-Man is a sophomore. She was so excited this morning to be at the same school with her brothers. It saddens me to think they are going to be leaving the nest sooner than I think, but I find great comfort in knowing that the Lord will watch over them and keep them on the right path he has chose for them. I thought Savannah would look for them and ask for them today but she was way to busy getting into things as usual. And to think we don't have to worry about grade school again for another 5 years!!! lol




Savannah waiting to see them off to school



Triple Decker Threat!




My beautiful young Lady

Monday, August 17, 2009

Great week!

We had a very busy but great time attending our county fair this past week and Jordan's scrimmage game on Saturday. I can't believe football season is here already! Savannah had a good time at the fair. We put her on the carousel but she wanted nothing to do with it, or any of the rides for that matter. She did like the music entertainment though and danced to it. We have always entered our kids in the pretty baby contest, it started when we had Jordan and kind of became a tradition with all three kids, so this year keeping with tradition we entered Savannah. Savannah's good friend Leila was also in the contest. Neither of them placed but that's ok, we already know we had beautiful little girls. Leila lives about 15 to 20 minutes away from us. One day when we were getting ready to travel to China for Savannah, we had to go to our board of education office to get a form for Haleigh to miss 2 weeks of school to go to China. While we were there we found out that another local family had came there to request a form for their two children to miss school for a trip to China to adopt also. We had no idea! It was amazing to find out that through our three years of waiting for Savannah, another family in the next town over was waiting to be matched with their little one. We kept in touch through e-mails the next few weeks while getting ready for our travel and met them at the airport on Sept. 11th, the day we left for China. They were with a different agency and we went our separate ways after that but seen them again while both our agency and theirs were on a tour of Tienanmen Square. If you know anything about Tienanmen Square it is a huge place filled with thousands of tourists, and amazingly we found each other while touring. they then went on from Beijing to Guangzhou to meet their beautiful daughter, who was from the Guangdong district. We still keep in touch with them through e-mails and met up with them a couple of nights of the fair. and plan on getting the girls together as often as we can. When they are together it is so cute.


Savannah and Leila trying to buckle and unbuckle the stroller belts




Friends for life!




Savannah sporting her ladybug swimsuit at the contest


Wednesday, August 12, 2009

A year ago today on august 12th 2008, we fell in love!

Our Beautiful Savannah's (Qian Jiang Yu) referral picture sent to us on August 12th, 2008!


A couple more pictures That were delivered to us the next day by the Stork!


(You guessed it) the Stork!



Our sweet Savannah Jiang Yu today at 2o months


It has been one year ago today, on August, 12th, 2008 that we met our beautiful baby girl and it was love at first sight. I can remember every second of that day as we waited for that very special phone call from our agency telling us they had our referral. We had already decided that if the call came and Brian was at work that I would take down all the info but wait to open the e-mail with her photo when we could all see it at the same time. If the kids were back in school when we got the call then we were going to take them out for that day, so they could share that moment with us. It was so important to me that the whole family be together for this special moment. God answered my prayers and we were all home for the call. We were all huddled together around the speaker phone, the camcorder was focused on us to record every second of our call, and of course we had a voice recorder for back up setting by the speaker phone to tape the conversation, let me tell you we were prepared!! When the phone rang at 1:00pm it was Kimberly from our agency CCAI. I will never forget her words "Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!" Then while she gave us some of info she wanted to send us her picture by e-mail, as we waited for the picture to download my heart was beating so fast. The picture came up and as you can see on the video below I LOST IT, which was something I promised myself I wouldn’t do but when I saw her face my heart just melted. And what a head of hair she had and still does. I know some people might not believe it, But I instantly fell in love with her. This was the daughter I had prayed and dreamed about for three long years, the little sister that Haleigh had longed for, and she was everything we had wished for and more. She was exactly the daughter God intended all those years for us to have. He had hand picked her before she was ever born to be placed into our family, and for that I am forever thankful to him! We are truly a blessed family!! Kimberly then finished sharing all of info with us. I had e-mailed and talked on the phone with Kimberly a good bit through our adoption process and was so excited she was sharing this very important and special day with us. It was a day our family will never forget and we will share it with Savannah when she is old enough to understand. It was a day that changed our family forever and brought us even closer together.


Thursday, August 6, 2009

Another Birthday Bash!

My sweet Tan-Man is growing up! Tannor turned the big #15 yesterday!! Tannor was born August 5th 1994 and weighed a whole whopping 6 lbs, 14 ounces. He was small and had very long little feet and big hands. I went into preterm labor two months before my due date and was in the hospital several times, and put on meds to stop it and then finally had to deliver due to developing toxemia. It was so scary but when I held him in my arms, all of that was forgotten. Tannor has always been a Ma Ma's boy from day one, he is so sweet and loving. He always has a smile and a big hug waiting for you. It's is so hard to believe he will be getting his permit now and I'll have two of them on the roads! He has had so many obstacles thrown at him through the years but by perseverance and his faith in his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ he has overcame everything. He has always been in the gifted program at school and has always been advanced one grade level. (I know It sounds like I'm bragging but I'm his proud Mom).

Tannor, Mom and Dad love you sooo much!!!





Our Tan-Man's very first Christmas


Always had a smile waiting for you


Picking the guitar and singing with Ma Ma Tweet


Tannor's fifth birthday with the king and queen from Medieval Times


Tannor at ten years old (only five years ago, WOW he has grown so much!)


My poor baby after splitting his toe in half at youth camp this year :(



Wonderful pics we took at Tennessee this year ( very handsome)




To my sweet young Man "Happy Birthday" Tannor!!!



Thursday, July 23, 2009

Savannah's first time on Broadway!!..........Broadway at the Beach that is.

Savannah blowing up her ladybug for the pool


A very nice lady offered to take a family photo at Broadway


Ma Ma and my very tired little ladybug watching the fireworks display


Beautiful


Jordan and Haleigh having fun and being silly


Ok, Mom and Dad too!


Savannah building her Panda


Haleigh and her new doll named shelly


Savannah and her new Panda friend whom she named Qian Jiang Yu


We have had such a good time on our vacation. Tuesday we went to Broadway at the beach which is huge place with lots and lots of little specialty shops including restaurants, candy, ice cream, and fudge shops. We try and go on Tuesday night when we come to the beach because they have an awesome fireworks show. Of course they also have a Build-a-Bear store. Haleigh has always made a bear every year and now she got to share the fun with her little Mei Mei. A couple of years ago I went in with Haleigh and made Savannah a rabbit dressed in a Mulan type outfit, it is sooo cute. It was so exciting making one for a daughter I'd never even seen yet but loved so much. This year Savannah got a panda made, I think I enjoyed it just as much as the girls!

Monday, July 20, 2009

First I want to say happy 10 month anniversary to CCAI'S group 1409!! Can you believe it, we have had our beautiful babies for 10 whole months. The time I have had with my sweet little angel has been priceless. The three years of wait to to get her was very difficult, a lot of crying, praying, and wondering at times if we would ever have her in our arms. All of that is behind us now and I would do it all over again in an instant. Savannah is everything I dreamed about in those three years and more. All four of our children are such blessings, I can never thank or praise God enough for what he has done for me.

Second of all I want to say we are on VACATION!! Yippee we needed this so bad! With Brian working 12 hour shift work, there are a lot of days where it seems like we hardly see him, so we treasure vacation time. We try and go to to Tennessee for two or three days and then travel to the beach for a week every year. Mountains and Beach ahhh it's the best of both worlds. We had made plans to visit with one of our good friends Tonyia who adopted beautiful little miss Sophie in our CCAI group. Sophie was Savannah's crib mate in the orphanage, but due an emergency with another family member they were unable to make it. We were heartbroken but fully understand. We hope to try and meet up maybe once a year or so, to get the girls together.

Savannah wasn't sure about her first time on the beach, she didn't want her feet to touch the sand, it was so cute. Now she is getting used to it and loves using her shovel to put the sand in her bucket. She adores the pools, but not to sure about our tradition of crab hunting in the evening. I just can't believe that summer before last, when we sat on the beach Brian and I were talking about what it was going to be like having our new little one with us and now here she is. God is good!

Melinda



OMG did someone say Krispy Kreme

Yes they did, yummy!

Daddy sticks don't belong on the beach

ok, maybe it's not that bad after all

Babewatch, not Baywatch

Ma Ma and Savannah

Waiting to go down to the beach is REALLY hard

Haleigh and little ladybug enjoying the hot tub

Baby bear spotted while on a nature hike at Cades Coves Gatlinburg, TN

Big Buck

Really big snake, looks like it just finished dinner

One of the many beautiful streams we visit every year

Nap time before the hike ever started

Starting point of hike

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Once Ma Ma's baby boy, Now my sweet young man

We recently celebrated my first born (Jordan) turning the big 17! I have had such huge mixed emotions about it, so excited about his graduation this senior year, so excited about his last year of football, so excited about his future, but also very sad that my little boy is all grown up. I pulled out all the old photos of him, reminiscing all evening trying to recapture the past, indulging myself in memories. From the time he was old enough to talk, his Grandma Tweet had him singing gospel and hymn songs in church. He would go to other area churches and sing sometimes by himself and sometimes with Tannor along side him. People would always beg them to come back. I am so proud of who he has become, he has made some really good choices. I am proud of his growing faith in God, and his hunger to continue to learn God's word. His youth leaders have always complimented on having him as their student. I can't wait to see what God has in store for him. Jordan you are such a blessing to us. You are a wonderful son, and big brother.

Jordan we love you with all of our hearts, your Ma Ma Tweet is watching down on you so proud and all smiles, for the young man you have become.



I have an angel watching over me from Heaven, I call her "Ma Ma Tweet"



Jordan at age 2


Making noodles with Ma Ma Tweet


First big day of kindergarten


Loves his Bass

Loves fishing


Happy "17th" Jordan


Jamming with Tannor and cousin Ryan


My sweet young man



Proud to be a Falcon